Popular Nigerian skit maker Carter Efe has opened up about his decision to stop attending church, citing discomfort with how some pastors interact with their congregation members. During a livestream on Twitch, Efe shared that he felt uneasy about the way certain religious leaders form close relationships with church members and then begin to solicit money from them. He described a pattern where pastors might start with friendly gestures, like frequent calls and warm interactions, but eventually turn to asking for financial assistance for personal needs. According to Efe, this could range from small requests for fuel money to more significant contributions for food or other expenses. He said this behavior made him “fear” and ultimately pushed him away from church services. “Pastor go dey show you love dey call you for afternoon and evening. Before you know pastor go dey tell you say ‘can you give me money for fuel?’ before you know pastor go tell you say ‘i want to cook beans, I need oil’. Before you know pastor go dey collect money for your hand na why I dey fear. Na why I no dey go church,” Efe explained, highlighting his concerns about pastors turning friendships into financial dependencies.
Efe’s comments have sparked discussions about the dynamics between religious leaders and their followers, touching on issues of trust, boundaries, and financial ethics within some religious communities. His experience reflects a broader concern among some individuals who feel pressured or exploited by those they once looked up to for spiritual guidance. As a public figure, Carter Efe’s openness about his reasons for leaving church attendance adds to ongoing conversations about transparency and accountability in religious institutions. His story resonates with others who have had similar experiences, prompting reflections on how religious organizations can better balance spiritual support with ethical conduct.
The skit maker’s candidness has generated reactions from fans and followers, with some expressing understanding and others defending their positive experiences with religious leaders. Efe’s narrative underscores the importance of healthy boundaries and mutual respect in all forms of relationships, including those within religious contexts. As discussions continue, his testimony serves as a reminder of the need for integrity and compassion in leadership positions.
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